If you get it by yourself, yes. Otherwise you get it from your spouse I guess.
Nevertheless Bürgerrecht is just a historical curiosity and AFAIK it has no effect on your life. Even if you are bankrupt, it is your commune of residence that takes over you.
So we’ve been at the Standesamt and it’s like you guys said:
Since the mom is swiss, the child will inherit her municipality of origin (Bürgerort) no matter the last name. I’m happy with that Still struggling with whether to give it my foreign or mom’s swiss last name, but that’s another story…
You can check if in your case the naming of the child can be done according to the customs of your country of origin (like double surnames for Spanish). Not sure if it works if one parent is swiss, but worth asking.
P.S. and congratulations! I tend to jump into practical issues overlooking simple things of life.
Is that actually possible? Like a couple could give the child a last name of both parents if that’s the way it’s done in their home country? That would solve the issue
Tangent: It’s so stupid we’re not allowed to have a hypenated-last name here in Switzerland!
From a purely practical point of view, you should probably give the same name as the main caregiver.
If not, the main caregiver must always have a proof of maternity (joint custody document or whatever) if there is the need to proof you are truly the mother.
Typical example: post office. Retrieving a pack adresses to your child without having the same name, if the clerk dies things by the book, requires proof of relationship.
Doesn’t always happens, it did happen to me once, since my children have the mother name.
See on the other hand as the dad, I feel the pressure/scrutiny will be much greater on me if I, say travel, with my child who carries his mom’s last name.
And I know an unmarried couple, one parent Spanish, another a EU national, who live in Switzerland permanently and their child has a double surname according to Spanish customs.
There are different regulations all over Switzerland and you won’t know if it works or not until you try.
At least if you‘re travelling internationally, you should prepare.
And when it comes to officials exercising discretion, I definitely think that a male will get away with less than a female mother travelling alone with a child.
While I wouldn’t name a child based solely on practicality and reception by others…
Since you’re asking for the child’s Bürgerort here, I assume you and your child (are) intended to remain in Switzerland. And if you separate from your girlfriend, the child‘s (primary) custody and residence will also most likely remain with the mother, in which case it makes sense if the child share the mother’s last name.
Also, having a Swiss last name will, in most cases, be regarded as more prestigious than a foreign last name and may provide subtle advantages when applying for jobs or a rental apartment.
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