I don’t know if you really mean it like I understand it, but for me that would be a dealbreaker. I would never feel bitter because my girlfriend has a job where she can work from home and earns good money. I’d be happy because she is and I would work on improving my own situation.
You should travel and do whatever you like. You worked hard for it, made your choices and now you face the good and the bad consequences.
Imagine you don’t like to do workouts, but you get in good shape and feel good.
Your girlfriend doesn’t like to do workouts as well so she doesn’t do it.
Now you are fitter than her and feel great while she doesn’t because she is lazy.
Would you stop doing workouts then and live a worse life than before because she gets’s bitter when you are feeling good? This would not work for me.
No that’s not true, but it’s what lazy people say all the time. You started with worse conditions than she did and you worked hard to improve your situation.
That’s what I’m seeing with woman all the time. I also had some trouble with girlfriends because of that as well.
- I wouldn’t want to live in a shared flat
- I don’t want to travel for my job
- I don’t want to move all my friends are here
- I don’t want more responsibility
- I don’t like to leave my comfort zone
She expects you to suffer all the downsides and her to just enjoy the benefits.
She lives her own life and has the face the good and the bad consequences.
100% that! Don’t let anybody tell you otherwise.
You can support her if you like. If you both try your best and you are working with the same effort on the same goal - that’s fine. Everybody can contribute according to his abilities and you share the oucome as a team.
But just complaining and demanding? No…
Seriously think about it. It’s not your job to provide a happy life for her.